What is normal?
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What is normal?
Hey girls. I so want this beanie to stick. And i am so worried that it won't. Dh wants me to reassure hm that all will be ok. I can't even assure myself 
I know that I shouldnt worry so much. Please can someone help me undastand why I just can't be happy?

I know that I shouldnt worry so much. Please can someone help me undastand why I just can't be happy?

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Because you know what can happen and what did happen. Its quite normal to stress after a mc and I can tell you a thousend times not to stress but still you will.
You may think by yourself if I just hear the heartbeat then I will stop stressing but in effect you will stress your whole pregnancy through until you hold your LO in your arms and still you will find something to stress about, that is unfortanatly what a mom is there for.
All I can say is trust God in this.
You may think by yourself if I just hear the heartbeat then I will stop stressing but in effect you will stress your whole pregnancy through until you hold your LO in your arms and still you will find something to stress about, that is unfortanatly what a mom is there for.
All I can say is trust God in this.

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What you are feeling are normal ! I felt the same after MC so much that We never told any of our family & friends until after the 12w mark! All you can do is trust in God plus you have us girls!

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Its sound very harse what I said, but believe me nothing anyone said to me, make me feel better and I know here is alot of ladies who will say he same.



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Lilian,up until the day i gave birth i was certain something was gonna go wrong,even the morning zoë was born,i thought when they were gonna find no heartbeat or something. So i can't imagine what it must feel like if you have been through all the things you ladies have endured! There's nothing wrong with what you're feeling,i guess it's just part of human nature to be cautious and protect ourselves from hurt,but i have faith that this is the one for you
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Lillian - the worrying NEVER stops even after your little on is born! I worried from day one and now i worry even more cos Damion is not with me during the day - Mom's worry - it's perfectly normal!
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Lillian I got pg after mc and still worry, I don't even Blog abt my preg because I'm too scared I am going to have to delete it..
Now that beanie kicks I feel a little bit better. He reminds me he is there every day.
The worry never stops. But just be thankful for every day that you are pregnant, that helps.
Strongs girl.
Now that beanie kicks I feel a little bit better. He reminds me he is there every day.
The worry never stops. But just be thankful for every day that you are pregnant, that helps.
Strongs girl.

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Lilian, I had a still born in 2007 and i am preg now, i am to scared as i dont know what will happen again but i try hard to stay calm even if its not easy.
Know that i can feel my baby kicking i think it makes things easier now, as i know everyday that he is okay. Like Cmom said "The worry never stops".
I think for me the only thing that will get me to relax is the day when i hold him in my arms. Take care love and Know that GOD is will you and loves U.

Know that i can feel my baby kicking i think it makes things easier now, as i know everyday that he is okay. Like Cmom said "The worry never stops".
I think for me the only thing that will get me to relax is the day when i hold him in my arms. Take care love and Know that GOD is will you and loves U.

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Hi Gia
Nice to see you hear. So sorry for your loss, but congrats on your pregnancy!
Nice to see you hear. So sorry for your loss, but congrats on your pregnancy!
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Lilian if you are really worried, you should try to get a fetal doppler. Then you can listen to the little heart beat whenever you want to. I bought mine from http://www.babybeats.co.za and it really helped once I could start feeling him and he was a bit quiet from time to time.
Stop stressing dear!! That little beanie is going to stick!!
Stop stressing dear!! That little beanie is going to stick!!


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Thinking of you and trusting everything will be ok. xxx

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