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Post by KarinBritz on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 12:11

I'm not having a good day today and are very sad. I have been doing ok but this morning when I opened my eyes this feeling of sadness covered over me. I'm missing my babies so much and will do anything just to be pregnant again and feeling the love I did for them. Time will tell I suppose, but it's really hard today.

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Eve on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 12:17

Hey Karin

I am so sorry. I know that this is cliched, but things will get easier in time.
It is normal to have good and bad days. Do you have a strong support structure around you? Are you at work? If so, maybe ask your boss if you can leave early today, and go home and grieve for your precious babies.

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Re: Very Sad

Post by KarinBritz on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 12:26

Thanks Eve, support is all around me and my hubby has been very supportive and is my strength at the moment. Will see if I can leave early, so much to do and my mind is only thinking of one thing at the moment.

P.S. You look beautiful.

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Eve on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:09

Thanks - I am sure that isnt what you wanted to see right now though. Sms me if you need to x x x

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Nix1407 on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:13

Please take time to grieve hun.

We're all here for you no matter what Hugs

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Honey Bunny on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:14

Hey

I hope you have somone to give you lots of hugs at home. I can't imagine what you must be feeling but I can only pray that you will heal.
big hug

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Kerryw on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:18

Karin

It must be so hard loosing your babies after you have seen them and you should be in the safer period. I am so sorry for you and I think it is very normal to have bad days.

I had a few bad days when I just stayed home and cried for a day and that was when we were trying! let alone if I had lost a baby.

I hope when you are ready you will try again and have a much better expereince and new babies to love.

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Re: Very Sad

Post by KP on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:24

I have no words to offer as I have not been there yet ... my thoughts and prayers are with you though ...

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Betti (B-Bat) on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:25

I don't have the words to say as I've never been there but I'm sending you virtual hugs

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Re: Very Sad

Post by des on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:31

Oh wow, cant even say I know how you feel or say anything that can possibly take a bit of your heart ache away.

Just sending you lots of light and love!

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Sheena on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:35

I am sure you are only human and normal to be having a down day. We are here for you just to chat if you need.

Take all the time you need. You have been through a very sad experience and it will take time to gradually heal.

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Chantalle on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:49

Hey Karin, I'm so sorry! It's probably the last thing you want to hear, but everyday it will get a little better.

I have no advice but I am thinking of you hun!! Here's an extra special BIG hug for you!!!!

big hug big hug big hug big hug

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Bane on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 13:57

ohhh hun, i know how u feel, but trust me love time heals all wounds... Hugs big hug Hugs Hugs big hug Hugs big hug Hugs big hug Hugs big hug

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Natasha on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 14:06

Im so sorry for your loss Karien,only time can heal your wounds.
I pray that you can get your bfp soon.

xoxoxoxoxoxo

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Re: Very Sad

Post by Dooi (Deuné) on Tue 26 Jan 2010 - 14:45

Hi girlie, soo sorry you feel this way, and I haven't even got the chance to say how sorry I am about the whole thing. Hope you find the strengh somewhere. Thinking and praying for you girlie!!!!

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