Motivaation for all

Lost a child when he was 16 months old to a car accident on the 6th december 2004, From the second it happened I just wanted to have a baby to ease the pain.
Went straight to Vincent Palotti Fertility clinic in Januraly straight after Xmas, I lied to the Doctor and said we had been trying for a year already, I did not even want to try and have a baby the natural way after what happened.

To cut a long story short, the clinic kept me going, I am sure if it was not for them I would have done myself in, I did 3 artificial inseminations, the second one took but I miscarried at 6 weeks, I then decided to do IVF, all the injections, blood tests every 5 minutes, it was very difficult on my system and financially draining on my husband.

When it was time they took out 6 eggs, they phoned me 2 days later to tell me there were only 2 eggs left and had to come in, by the time I was there, there was only 1 egg left, and guess what, It never worked.

I was devastated, a year gone by, tons of money spent and still no baby, Thats when I made my mind up that I was giving up, no more counting days, working out when I was ovulating, forcing my husband to get in the mood, I was finished, I resided that I was never meant to have another child.

We booked ourselfs on a cruise liner for a week, drank to much and had a great time and basically forgot about everything,
and guess what 2 weeks after the cruise I was pregnant with my boy Richard, then richard was born and when he was 6 months old I fell pregnant with ALexis,

So I guess there is a plan for everyone eventually, my advice to everyone is to try( I know its hard )
not fixate on it and enjoy your husband and mabe it will happen, it did for me eventually.

Thanks for sharing hotmama.so sorry about your loss. What a good ending indeed.

Wow that really is amazing, thanks so much for sharing that with us. Miracles do happen!!! You are proof of that.

Thanks for that lovely story,sorry for you loss.

everything comes in it own time, thanks just what we need to hear..

Thanks for sharing hun. I am so sorry for the loss of your child. I cannot even think how one gets through something like that!

That is an amazing story - thank you for sharing it with us!
Indeed, God does have a plan for everyone!

Really an amaizing story!!! Thanks for sharing girlie!
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I'm so sorry for yur loss... What an inspirational story!

Thats really inspirational, thank you for sharing

Gods timing is better than perfect-things happen when they are suppose to,not always when we want them to