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Post by elleznom on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 9:40

My dad works at the grootvlei mines, they haven't been paid since January, according to the news they were supposed to start work again today, but as always, nothing, as there is no power, seeing that Aurora (the company that owns the mines) owes Eskom R18 million for electricity. They also have a R14 million Tax fraud case against them, as they subtract the UIF portions from each workers salary every month, but failed to actually pay this to SARS, hence they can't claim UIF as there is none. We are helping where we can but it's not much, my mom still works, but she earns the bare minimum, my sister still stays with them and has no expenses, so she is basically carrying the financial burden at the moment (with her first job, she is 19)

This is really getting to me and my dad is very emotional and stressed (I have NEVER seen him like this)

He is however going for an interview tomorrow, but it's in Marblehall, so he will have to stay there during the week and only come home over weekends, which is such a crap situation, but yes, atleast it's money.

I am really torn up about this, and I need as much prayers as possible for them, please...

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Post by Ilze on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 9:42

Oh that is not good! I pray that he will find a job very soon and that everything will work out for them.

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Post by Guest on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 9:45

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Post by Chantalle on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 9:45

Ai Monz, praying for you and your family! :Pray:

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Post by michmac on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 10:16

Hugs Shame Monz that is a terrible situation to be in, keeping you and your family in my prayers

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Post by Sheena on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 10:22

Monz.. have been there and worn the BIG T-SHIRT with my folks so I know exactly how you are feeling. Will keep them and you in my prayers.

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Post by TarrynT on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 10:23

Ag no Monz thats terrible, so sorry my friend, will keep them in my prayers!
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Post by elleznom on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 10:23

Thank you so much ladies... I am very emotional about all this and with my hormonal imbalance at the moment I must say I am a bit "off" with everything going on. I am spending the weekend with them as hubby is going to Mighty Men, looking forward to it...

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1st Beta on 15/07/2008 = 51.2 (4w)
2nd Beta on 19/07/2008 = 258.7 (4w4d)
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*BFP #2! 04/03/2011
1st Beta on 04/03/2011= 225.4 (4w)
2nd Beta on 09/03/2011 = 1293 (4w5d)
26/05/2011 - It's a GIRL!
Marilé Shiloh de Villiers born 09/11/2011, weighing 3.52kg, 48cm tall.



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Post by witty on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 10:38

Praying for your family for a complete break through in this crisis. Our God is forever faithful, He will see you and your family through this.

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Post by B-Bat on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 17:17

Monz, my mom is in a similar situation (not sure each month if she is going to be paid or have a job the next month) but thankfully so far we haven't had to help her but each month it's a question of is she going to need our help this month. So I have some understanding and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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Post by DJMommy on Thu 15 Apr 2010 - 17:48

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Post by Boo (Sharmein) on Fri 16 Apr 2010 - 11:05

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Post by BB on Fri 16 Apr 2010 - 12:57

Ai Monz, praying for you and your family!!!!

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Post by Adele on Wed 21 Apr 2010 - 7:14

Monz my parents was in the same position in 1996 - which was why I could'nt go study what I wanted to. They lost everything - but they made it through. Dis moeilik om sterk te staan want dis jou ouers en dis aaklig om hulle so te sien. Ek bid dat dinge na 'n punt sal kom en vir jou pa en ma en julle almal vir kalmte.

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Post by Pumi on Wed 21 Apr 2010 - 8:09

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