What is it with these old mamas?

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What is it with these old mamas?

Post by Thully on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 14:31

You know what gals everytime when they see me (they say wow you are pregnant, this time will be a gal you look so beautiful you are glowing"
and asking me how far.
:confused
All these hurt me alot. I wish I can tell them to get off, but I cann't, they don't mean it badly and I respect them.
Yesterday I was passing by and this mama said to another "You see Dorothy I told you, soon we will be grannies".
WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY ladies. I even felt like crying, knowing she is wronggggggggggg.
Sorry ladies, I had to take this out.
Enjoy your weekend
love you.
:Kiss:


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Re: What is it with these old mamas?

Post by Dooi on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 14:36

Shame girlie, know how that feels... hope they mind their own business in the future!!! Sorry girl, but sometimes people gets soooo rude, without realizing it though!

hope you feel better soon, and hope you DO walk around with a REAL boep one of these days, then they can say whatever they like to!!

Enjoy your weekend!
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Post by Kim on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 14:41

aarghh Thully

Console girl

They probably dont know they hurting you by saying all these things.

Just have faith that God will bless u soon again

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Re: What is it with these old mamas?

Post by Natasha on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 15:08

Sorry Thully,i know exactly how you feel,women that are not
married have babies and then you get me,whos has just had a big
wedding 2 yrs ago,but no baby Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad .
So the biggg question is always "WHEN IS THE BABY COMING",and my
answer is "im not in a hurry for kids now", Evil or Very Mad ,but deep inside
im crying for a baby :Sad

So cry all you want sweety,you will feel much better soon,always helps
for me to let it out Console

Bear love

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Re: What is it with these old mamas?

Post by Thully on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 15:23

Thank you my friends.
This was really irritating me. I'm better now after talking to you.

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Post by Mpums on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 15:25

Console my friend
Those mama's should mind their own business Shame bad

big hug my friend we will be blessed very soon.

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Post by Lameez on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 15:26

oh Mckayla and how, I am married 3 years had a massive wedding, everyone in the family that got married after me is pregnant, or had a child and some having their second child and me nada. I feel like screaming sometimes, just leave me the hell alone. God has His own plans and I have to wait till He blesses us with a miracle, and the comments like we don't know how to do it, just freaking kills me. How insensitive can you be.

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Re: What is it with these old mamas?

Post by Sboza on Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 15:35

My friend not to raise your hopes in a bad way or any thing but read on, I know I didn't mention anything about this it just came back to me as I read your post:
My last period started on the 26th of September, on the 27th I went to a wedding on which I was going to see my old high school mate.
I was wearing so nice but there was this one girl that kept on saying i'm pregnant and I hated it because i had just started with the period but these other 2 girls said to me whenever someone says are you pregnant/you look pregnant-I must say I receive (even if I say it in my heart but really mean it unless I don't want kids anytime soon) and so I did. That girl phoned me later on to ask if I'm really not pregnant as she noticed I kept on touching my tummy that day-I said no I'm not but i receive the blessing and Lol I ended pregnant, I'm sure even now if i were to tell them that I am pregnant-they won't believe that I wasn't then.
So my love by this long story I mean.
Don't take it in a bad way when people say that-receive it rather, even deep down in your heart say I receive... and wait for God to act

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Re: What is it with these old mamas?

Post by Thully on Mon 3 Nov 2008 - 8:53

Hey thanks Sbozasi.
I will also try to be that positive.
Have a great day.

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