My worst nightmare came true ..

I Don't want to go in to much detail, but I found out my DH is having an affair

We are going through a VERY tough time & I just ask if you could please keep us in your prayers & specially that we have the strength to protect little Wynand from getting hurt.

What I can say is that I have decided to work through this for Wynand's sake. DH promissed that he have ended the relationship, but there are so much things & I don't even know where to start. All I can say is it was a total shock as I didn't expect it at all, we were SO happy.

Oh, and PLEASE don't mention anything on Facebook.

Ag no man.
Idt I am sorry. Did he admit it to you or did you have to find out some other way?

I am so sorry you have to go through this seriously. I cant imagine what it must feel like

I Asked him about the telephone bill (actually a vodacom no we phoned for the DSTV ...) he then said he will look, grabbed it & went to the bathroom. When he gave it back some pages were missing, but he forgot 1 so I could see what is going on, but still wasn't sure.

We went to a site of his, and when we got back I forgot my purse in the bakkie. I Went to fetch it and the found letters that she wrote to him. He had to admit. He says nothing happend, was just flirting but I'm not sure yet - I will find out !!!

Shame Idt. I am sorry man. I cant imagine much else hurting as much as infidelity.

Oh no So sorry to hear this

We are here if you need to chat about it

Good luck!

I am so sorry. Will keep you in my prayers.

Thats terrible - I am so sorry

I am sooooo sorry idt! I pray that you can work something out. Do what is BEST for you and Wynand.

Good luck xxxxx

Thank you ladies. Today more than any other I am so very very gratefull that I have OPM in my life.

Lillian - that is the only thing I can think of is WYNAND. That's why I know no matter how hard it is I have to put my feelings aside and amke the right descision for HIM.

So sorry idt,i hope things will work out the way you want it to,and for the little ones sake.
Will keep you guys in my prayers.

Oh, i'm so very sorry - and whatever anyone tries to "advise" you to do, don't feel bad for making the decision to work it out!

We are here to support you NO MATTER what decision(s) you've decided to make.

I'm thinking of and praying for all of you

Thank you very much. It mean the world to me.