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Hi ladies
I know what the power of prayer can do. And I want to ask you to please pray for my family. My one brother and SIL is fighting all the time because this one accuses that one of having an affair. And we all have to just tip toe around them. The police was called because they were physically fighting with each other and my brother wanted to kill his wife and 3kids.
My other brother's wife is also accusing him, because he comes 5 or 10minutes later than he is supposed to. He is a policeman and he cant just leave his post without being relieved by someone else. And sometimes he waits long for a reliever.
My sister's 14year old is smoking weed! And we cant seem to get through to her. She has this bad attitude, yet she is doing great in school. My eldest brother's son is also involved in weed and mandrax etc. His mom is taking things very bad. As you can see we have sooooo many issues in our family and I dont know where to start.
The grown ups are acting like kids and not sitting down and talking. And we just dont know what anymore.
I am thinking of taking the 2kids out to stay with me for the weekend and just have a chat with them and show them support and love. My sister's other 3daughter's, we have already seen what drugs can do. They are in their own league and well they just dont want help anymore. But I want to take Miles and Mieshka out of that and help them. Sjoe, my heart is burning and heavy. I miss the guidance of my parents and my MIL. And now I have to take over that role.
Please pray for guidance as to how to help my family. And to let them see that what they are doing is hurting us as well.
Thank you ladies
I know what the power of prayer can do. And I want to ask you to please pray for my family. My one brother and SIL is fighting all the time because this one accuses that one of having an affair. And we all have to just tip toe around them. The police was called because they were physically fighting with each other and my brother wanted to kill his wife and 3kids.
My other brother's wife is also accusing him, because he comes 5 or 10minutes later than he is supposed to. He is a policeman and he cant just leave his post without being relieved by someone else. And sometimes he waits long for a reliever.
My sister's 14year old is smoking weed! And we cant seem to get through to her. She has this bad attitude, yet she is doing great in school. My eldest brother's son is also involved in weed and mandrax etc. His mom is taking things very bad. As you can see we have sooooo many issues in our family and I dont know where to start.
The grown ups are acting like kids and not sitting down and talking. And we just dont know what anymore.
I am thinking of taking the 2kids out to stay with me for the weekend and just have a chat with them and show them support and love. My sister's other 3daughter's, we have already seen what drugs can do. They are in their own league and well they just dont want help anymore. But I want to take Miles and Mieshka out of that and help them. Sjoe, my heart is burning and heavy. I miss the guidance of my parents and my MIL. And now I have to take over that role.
Please pray for guidance as to how to help my family. And to let them see that what they are doing is hurting us as well.
Thank you ladies
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oh Lilian, thats heartsore my friend. and i think what you want to do is very kind and caring. sometimes its really hard to get involved but when there is no one else then someone has to take the lead. I will pray for these children too, that they can get help and encouragement before its too late xx lots of love and strength to you xx

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Hugs my friend u r too young yet it seems u r carrying too much on your shoulders. My Jehovah carry the load on your behalf amen.
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shame lils, hope things get better soon

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praying for you and everyone involved. im so sorry hun!!!
your an awesome woman!!!
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Pray it all gets better Lils
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ah Lil, my friend, it's so hard when people you love go thru tough times with regards to the drugs, unfortunatley there is nothing you can do unless they want to be helped, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink!
I'm praying for all of you my friend and i'm here to chat if you need anything big loves
I'm praying for all of you my friend and i'm here to chat if you need anything big loves
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Oh Lils, that is really bad. Glad they have such a caring and supportive aunt. Hope they appreciate you. Will pray for you guys and for God to give you the guidance and wisdome to handle this.
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