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by Kerryw on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 8:53
Sweetpea it sounds possibly like and early miscarriage or a blighted ovum.
but all the best with TTC
but all the best with TTC
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by Zee on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 9:08
Ah, Im SO SORRY Sweetpea.
Cant imagine the pain you must feel when all your hopes are up and then nothing. Very strange that you had a line but now nothing!
Huge hugs!
Cant imagine the pain you must feel when all your hopes are up and then nothing. Very strange that you had a line but now nothing!
Huge hugs!
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by Jasmine786 on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 9:43
Agh, no. I am so sorry. Please dont feel silly, becos this is a place where we are allowed to have hopes and dreams, no matter how silly they seem to us. Big Hugs!
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by sweetpea on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 9:51
thanx - been reading everyones messages.I cant flippen stop crying,dnt know what s wrong with me?
@ kERRY - I thought of that to....and the possibility of that happening is probably whats causing the tears - feel like a failure
DH doesnt understand so its tough trying to explain to him.
Just needed to get that off my chest.
@ kERRY - I thought of that to....and the possibility of that happening is probably whats causing the tears - feel like a failure
DH doesnt understand so its tough trying to explain to him.
Just needed to get that off my chest.
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by elleznom on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 10:29
So sorry SP... 
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by Danni on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 10:39
It's ok to cry Sweetpea... I cried so so so much with my MC. Don't feel like a failure
When I went to the gynae last week she said there is not much you can do to prevent it, the most probable cause is a genetic abnormality.
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by LilianJ on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 11:26
I am sooooo sorry Sweetpea My heart just breaks for you
My heart just breaks for you 
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by Kerryw on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 11:42
Sorry Sweatpea that is what we are here for understanding.
Apparently 50% of all miscarriages have chromosomal abnormalitites but most people dont realise they are pregnant before loosing it.
But also for every baby out there there is one the mom lost. And when they happen so early there was no chance of doing anything.
but also dont feel like a failure as most of those 50% come from sperm problems not the mom at all.
There was a study in china where they got newly married women to collect thier urine every day for a year or untill they were pregnant. From that they identified so many early misscarriages that the women did not even realise they were pregnant. So it is a normal thing.
but also if you want make an appt with your gynea and have a check up.
Apparently 50% of all miscarriages have chromosomal abnormalitites but most people dont realise they are pregnant before loosing it.
But also for every baby out there there is one the mom lost. And when they happen so early there was no chance of doing anything.
but also dont feel like a failure as most of those 50% come from sperm problems not the mom at all.
There was a study in china where they got newly married women to collect thier urine every day for a year or untill they were pregnant. From that they identified so many early misscarriages that the women did not even realise they were pregnant. So it is a normal thing.
but also if you want make an appt with your gynea and have a check up.
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by Natasha on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 12:09
Arg no man so sorry Sweetpea,hope your next cycle will bring you a bfp.
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by sweetpea on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 14:34
thanx,but think im rather gonna wait till 2012 - not long to go anyway
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by Dishearten on Tue 4 Oct 2011 - 17:28
I will be praying for you! So sorry that you have to go through this disappointment. Remember we are all here for you.
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