Update and I'm furious

Okay so today our sw called just to hear how far we came with our weightloss. WTH!!!! A month back she told me the board was sitting in that week and that we would probably hear in 3 weeks time if our application was sucsessful and today she told me the board didn't sit and her words to me was "what did the doctor said about your weight" while she have the doctors report with her. At that stage I was so lost of words that I couldn't think straight. :no:

After words I just thought by myself yes I can loose the weight and they could give us a baby but what if the adoption is finalise and I pick weight up again, are they going to take the baby away, I mean wow I'm over weight my whole life how on earth am I going to lose the weight and also stay that way.

And even if I am streamline my family to have problems with hbp would they also tell me because of that I could be of risk 10 years from now on.

Sorry girls I'm just so sad and furious at the moment I just need to get it off my chest and on top of it all, hubby keeps telling me how badly he wants a child and keep talking about when we have children and I just feel the world could swallow me.

WTF! They can't do that...

I think you should report this SW. That is completely unprofessional...

Big hugs and happy thoughts to you - I'm thinking of you

xxx

How can they be so cruel?

I don't think she submitted your application yet.

Stay strong hun, your time will come.

Thinking of you and praying for you that you will receive that call soon

Lots of love and a BIG (((((((((((((HUGE))))))))))))))

i still don't understand what your weight has to do with it???

be strong and don't give up!!!!

Thanks girls,

Landie apparently I might have a stroke in ten years time because I'm over weight. I just feel that much can happen in the 10 years they predict and its not in my hands or there's to cast something like that on to me.

are they crazy ... only God know these things ...

who died and made her God ...

I would do as Nats says and report her ...

BULL......, shame girlie, hopefully that will be sorted out real soon!

Good luck!
xxx

Holding ALL my thumbs for your MIRACLE girlie!!!! IT WILL COME!!!!
xxx

I think they are bull sh*tting you!

I think u will b a wonderful mother and that sw can kiss your @ss.

WTF, I mean what does ones weight have to do with your parenting skills? in my opinion that is plain discrimination! I think you should report th sw! I am also over weight with hbp, so now i am not fit to be a mother? crap! strongs girlie, dont let them get to you

Ai Lilly, its very difficult, as I already have a low selfesteme (spelling) and now this, but yes miracals do still happen.

I know, also strugle with low self esteem, but you are right miracles do happen and soon you`ll have your, just keep faith girl!