Attending to Twins

Hi Ladies

I am sought of depressed today. Having two babies at the same time is getting to me. My LB is becoming attached to his nanny, yesterday i was giving him medicine which he was refusing, when he saw his nanny he cried for him as if to say rescue me (you know that look), i felt so bad, i think i have been attending to LG a lot hence LB is being drawn to nanny, being a working mom is not helping. Ahh this twin this is difficult. Just wanted to vent.

Ai shame man. I know what you mean. My Rachel is much more demanding than Olivia with the result that I end up giving her more attention, and in addition, giving their older sister enough attention is a big problem. One just doesn't have enough hands! Good luck.

HI Lipa

I am in the same place as you, my one little boy now smiles more for his nanny than me I was so jealous. But they have years to get to know you and all that is important now is lots of love (from anyone).

Kerry

Thanks Ladies, Kerryw, you don't know how relieved i am to hear that, its true they need love from as many people as possible.

I agree, its very hard raising twins. I have hit a major low - I have postnatal depression.

Joleen, so sorry you are going thru a tough time.

Oh Joleen just don't be too hard on yourself. Are you taking something is the dose right. I am on quite a high dose to cope.