Adoption and baby shower??

It rather quiet in the adoption section so am posting this here aslo.....

Ladies i need some help please

We have a family member (who like the majority of us) have had a reall difficult time these last 10 years. Has tried everything and anything to fall preg and no go.

So she and her DH are on the adoption list and the last year they have had about 3 possibly then withdrawl adoptions.

The good news now is that there could be another new born in the next 2months and less!!! And it sounds promising and we all praying real hard for her and for the mum to make the right decision.

NOW THE BIG QUESTION: WHEN DO WE GIVE HER A BABY SHOWER????????

I was thinking once she actually comes home with the baby, as the mum could change her mind etc but maybe someone has been in a similar situation and could help me out please.

hi Tammy

I think it would be safe once she has got the baby ... then u could also make it a surprise ... good luck dear